As a single mother, I often feel as if I’m being judged moreso than the average parent.
Are they really judging? That’s a question that I can’t answer honestly, but it’s how I feel.
And since the recent announcement of McCain’s running mate, Sarah Palin, she’s being judged, too, but not for her being a single parent, but for having a career and a family.
As a single mother, I don’t have a choice. I HAVE to have a career. Child support will not support me. And kids? I’m sure you’re aware. They are expensive.
Palin has fallen under attack in just a week over her abilities as a mother and a politician. Politics aside, let’s talk about her parenting.
Is she a bad mother because her teenage daughter is pregnant?
Is she a bad mother because she was back in the office just a few days after giving birth?
Is she a bad mother because she’s chosen to put her family in the spotlight?
What makes someone a bad mother?
Am I am bad mother because I chose to move my children to a city where they knew no one to further my career?
Am I a bad mother because I leave my children with a friend while I travel for business?
Am I a bad mother because I miss my son’s football games because I have to work?
Is she a bad mother?
Am I a bad mother?
She’s DEAD ON.
We aren’t perfect parents. None of us are. Some of us like to appear to others as if we are, but deep down, we know. We doubt. We question.
Even Mary and Joseph lost Jesus. Did you know that? And if the parents of the Messiah lost their child, why do we think that we can be perfect parents?
It’s time to stop attacking her as a mother. If you want to attack her views, her platform, her choices in political office, have at it. That’s what’s supposed to be important in an election, not the way you raise your children.
As she stated in her nomination acceptance speech, her family is like all the other families in America. They have their ups and their downs. Just like you and me.
Let’s not forget that before she is the Governor of Alaska, before she is the Republican VP Nominee, she is a mother. An imperfect mother, just like you and me.
Before passing judgement on her, ask yourself this question, If you were running for political office, what would the critics say about you?
Heather Jacobson is a single mom to Matthew, 11, and Samara, 9. She’s wading through life in search of sanity in any form and blogs about it at Desperately Seeking Sanity.